Ditto the above. Be friendly, around and talk to her, but move on to other girls for now.
If she changes her mind later, she'll let you know.

Well... we're definitely older..

Maybe this picture will help;

I am afraid that I am entirely the wrong person to ask - I realized after the minor disaster following being propositioned by one of my players that I have never asked a girl out on a date. They have always been the one who asked me.

Strange, given how little of a shrinking violet I am - I can talk with guh-guh-guh *gulp!* girls just fine, but I have never asked for more than conversation. It just never crosses my mind.

I have dated, and had steady girlfriends, and even lived with one for two years, but have never been the pursuer, only the pursued. And even there, I have been dating the same girl for more than ten years, with more than half of that long distance.

Something messed up with my priorities, I think.

The Auld Grump

Okay, we've both pretty much agreed that we don't want to go to a movie on our first date, so we have more time to talk.

I am generally leaning towards a coffee shop right now, although the archery range may also be a possibility.

ScrubKai - Outside is not gonna work at this time of year, lol.

The funny thing is, she actually suggested a board game... just don't know if that's a good idea for date #1, don't want to weird her out too much

Was archery her suggestion? Or did she suggest a board game?

Whichever it was, it's a good idea to go with what she wants to do. Just remember to keep your competitive side under control - make sure she gets to win some, too.

There's another reason for being careful about women with bows - those Amazons didn't cut off one breast because they thought it would look better.

Double date + Munchkin. Once she gets the Broad Sword she'll have a blast.

Actually, Looney Labs makes a card game that we've had fun with called Nanofictionary. I've played it with gamers & normals both, and the only people who haven't had fun are those who always take themselves completely seriously.
http://www.wunderland.com/LooneyLabs/Nanofictionary/